Beautiful Memories
I loved being pregnant. The first 3 months were pretty difficult because morning sickness wasn't too easy on me. It was all day, all night, no matter what I tried I was just feeling awful. I can't stand ginger but that was the only thing that sort of made me feel human again, so I was on a diet of ginger tea and ginger cakes 24/7.
My parents were extatic about the news...after the first initial shock. I mean it's not like I was 16 years old and/or was living in a nunnery. But still, we weren't planning to have a baby just yet. And my Dad took it particularly hard; this news meant his little girl has grown up. That I was becoming a parent myself. Wow!
3 months pregnant
The second trimester was the best time of my life. The morning sickness stopped, I was full of energy, there were no aches and pains and...ermm..sex was the best ever.
My clothes were getting tighter and tighter but I was so proud of my bump. I wanted everyone to acknowledge that I am pregnant, carrying a child, am sensible grown up, glam Yummy Mummy etc.
But in reality I was struggling to find proper clothes to fit as even pregnant I was small and what fit on my bump was huge everywhere else. Most people thought I was having a boy as I had a 'football-tummy'.
The last 3 months weren't that much fun. It was the middle of summer, far too hot for an 8 months pregnant gal. I was stuck in London as I wasn't allowed to fly anymore, so I felt pretty bored and tired. My feet ballooned (with the rest of me, really) and I resembled the Elephant Man. By August I was really keen to just have this baby any minute.
My contractions started at around 5pm and became 2 minutes apart by 7 o'clock. We arrived in the hospital by 7:15 and were told the baby wouldn't arrive before dawn as I was only 2cm dilated. The family decided to stay and wait and boy were they right! Suddenly at 10:16pm I felt the unstoppable urge to push. I didn't have anything else but a Pethadine injection at 7:30 which was a hugeeee mistake as it made me feel so drowsy and disoriented I could hardly see straight. It did not take the pain away, so next time Pethadine will definitely be a no-no.
The urge to push was something I never felt before but interestingly it made everything so easy! I pushed for 15 minutes exactly and after a 5 hour labour at 22:31 Nia Eve Roberts was born weighing 7lbs 4oz and measuring 53cm.
She was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen! She was dressed in all white and today I held her little babygrow that she wore for the first time...it is soo tiny!
Tears of joy... Nia a few minutes old
So, thanks Sue for the 'idea', it brought back all these beautiful memories and made me realise once again how lucky we Mummies are!